The Consistency Blueprint

The Real Reasons You Struggle with Consistency (And How to Fix It for Good)

April 06, 20253 min read

Let’s be honest—staying consistent with health and fitness as a parent can feel impossible.

You start strong, but then life happens. You’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or feel like you’re constantly “falling off track.” Sound familiar?

Here’s the truth: the problem isn’t you—it’s the approach you’ve been given.

Most plans don’t account for real life as a busy parent.

But when you understand why consistency feels so hard, you can finally create a plan that works for you.

From our experience over the years, this is what's been stopping you getting results:

1. Overwhelm & Lack of Clarity

❌“I want to be healthier, but I don’t know where to start.”

❌“I try to change everything at once and burn out.”

Many parents struggle because they don’t have a clear, simple plan tailored to their life. Instead, they dive into extreme programs or feel paralyzed by information overload.

✅How to Fix It:

  • -       Simplify the process: Focus on small, sustainable habits like 10-minute workouts, prepping just one meal per day, or drinking more water.

  • -       Tailor the plan to your life: Your routine needs to work for you, not the other way around. This means learning how to adapt workouts, meals, and habits to fit your unique schedule

2. Unrealistic Expectations

❌“I need to be perfect, or I’ve failed.”

❌ “If I don’t see results fast, it’s not working.”

Many programs set unrealistic goals or push an all-or-nothing mentality. This leads to burnout, guilt, and eventually giving up.

✅ How to Fix It:

  • -       Shift to a progress-over-perfection mindset: Celebrate small wins like better energy, improved sleep, and feeling stronger—not just the number on the scale.

  • -       Flexible frameworks: Learn how to adjust your plan when life gets chaotic (e.g., quick meal swaps, kid-friendly workouts, or shorter training sessions).

 

3. Lack of Accountability & Support

❌ “I feel like I’m doing this alone.”

❌ “I start strong, but no one’s there to help when motivation fades.”

 Without a support system, it’s easy to lose motivation when things get tough. Parenting can feel isolating, and tackling fitness alone makes it even harder.

 ✅ How to Fix It:

  •  Find a community that lifts you up: You need a space where you feel safe, supported, and understood by others going through the same journey.

  •       Use creative accountability: Simple tools like fun challenges (e.g., “10 squats a day for 7 days”) or check-ins can keep you engaged without pressure.

 

4. Life Demands as a Parent

❌ “I have no time or energy left for myself.”

❌ “I feel guilty prioritizing my health.” 

Parenting is demanding. Your time and energy go to your family, and taking care of yourself often feels like an afterthought.

✅ How to Fix It:

  • -       Make fitness family-friendly: Try workouts your kids can join, or create meals that work for the whole family so you’re not cooking separately.

  • -       Shift your mindset: Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s essential. When you invest in your health, you’re a stronger, happier, more present parent.

What Sets Us Apart as Your Coaches?

Most programs give you a plan and send you on your way. But real, lasting success comes from consistent support, personalisation, and mindset work. 

🔹 Practical tools: Meal plans, workouts, and check-ins to fit your life as a parent.

🔹 Mindset coaching: We work through the mental blocks stopping you from staying consistent.

🔹 Personal connection: You’re not just a number—we check in on your progress, mindset, and emotional well-being every single week.

 

💡 If you’re ready for a real, flexible plan that works WITH your life (not against it), contact us .

Let's work together to create a plan that helps you not just survive, but thrive as a parent.

Contact us today to start your journey towards a healthier, happier you.

Pre + Post Natal Coach, Nutrition Coach, Personal Trainer + Mum of 3.

Rachel Giampietro

Pre + Post Natal Coach, Nutrition Coach, Personal Trainer + Mum of 3.

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